I'm writing about my story to warn all women who get involved with Cliff Williams what he is capable of. In this day and age, most intellegent, internet savvy women conduct a name search of someone they just met over the internet. If you don't do this, I highly recommend doing it going forward, because you'll never know what you'll find. If this site had been available to me, when I met this man, I would have ran the other way.
In May 2009 I received an email from Cliff Williams over MySpace. He's not the most intelligent person in the world, so all he said was that I was hot. Considering the venue, I didn't take a lot of this very seriously, so I emailed him back and told him that he was hot too. He instantly emailed me his cell number and told me to text him. I thought that was a little weird, but nonetheless, I decided to text him back a few days later. Hell, I thought I was having fun. He was actually a gentlemen, which is shocking, because most of the guys on MySpace are pigs. Eventually, we did meet and that was the beginning of my almost two year ordeal with this man.
In the beginning, he told me that he had a baby with a woman that he was extremely unhappy with and that they were separated. After a while, I found out that he lived with the baby's mama. He had to admit this eventually, since we both lived in the same town. He never referred to her by her name, she was always referred to as the baby mama! Additionally, he told me that he was in a very unhappy, sexless relationship with the baby mama and that he was stuck there for his daughter. I bought the story, because I was recently divorce from a 13 year marriage. Towards the last years of my marriage, I only stayed in my marriage because of the kids. Therefore, I felt like we had that in common and I had sympathy for what he was going through. Little did I know that part of his hustle is to play on your sympathies.
He and I would meet and spend hours talking and of course have sex. However, in my mind, it wasn't just sex, because of the amount of time we spent together laughing our assess off and talking. It was usually at least an 8 hour event. He only worked part time at a type of boys and girls club in the area. Therefore, his inconsistent hours allowed him continue to see me without Baby Mama getting suspicious or at least that's what I thought.
In May 2010 he moved out of baby mama's house and moved in with
his father and sister. There's another blog that describes their living conditions, which are absolutely disgusting. The reason he told me he moved out of Baby Mama's house was because he hit her and could no longer live with her. That red flag should have hit me over the head. However, Cliff is the master manipulator and when he described baby mama, as the worst mother in the world, most unreasonable person to deal with and a nasty drunk, who was drunk most of the time and neglects her child. He even texted me a picture of her with her head hanging over the toilet after a night of drinking. His tag line for the picture was,
"See what I have to deal with." Charming...huh?
When he moved out, it was declared that we were in a committed relationship. Earlier in the year he lost his job, so he whined a lot about not finding a job. He claimed that he spent a large amount of time looking for work, but that wasn't the case at all. I would later figure this out on my own. One night I went to pick him up and he pulled a new laptop computer out of his backpack and said his mother bought it for him. He said she hit it big playing bingo and wanted him to have it to look for a job. That was a farse. He only used that computer for downloading music and watching movies. Then he said his mother was buying him a car from one of the neighbors for $300. During this time I bought myself a second car for my own fun. He was shocked at how quickly I was able to get it. This is what happens when you pay your bills, you get something called CREDIT.
One day he started hounding me stating that
his mom didn't have the $300 for the car and he needed it that day. I told him that I didn't have $300, even though I did. Then he fucked up and slipped, he already had the car and was trying to hustle me for $300. He also hit on a fat, nasty chick up at Denny's for her number. He made the mistake of saying in front of me, that he knows that girl and she might have weed. The $300 and the nasty Denny's girl were enough for me to break up with his loser ass.
About a month later, we ended up communicating and the stupid ass went to jail for carrying a switch blade. His sister was also arrested for selling a gram of bunk week.
There's more about that in another blog, so I won't go into the details. This is when he started showing his true colors. Cliff has a nasty temper, twists reality with some crazy analogies and I started to realize that he wasn't really looking for a job. His appearence was changing for the worst and I also came to the conclusion that I wouldn't hire him for a job based on his appearence alone. I also realized that I wanted to get away from him, but I knew that he was not emotionally stable and it was not going to be easy.
Actually breaking up with him wasn't that hard at all, because in early January I noticed my old wedding was missing and he is the only person who was in my house who was capable of stealing it. He also somehow ended up with a flat screen tv, which I believe is my ring.
In mid-January, I was diagnosed with Clamydia, because unbeknownst to me he was fucking at least 8 other women including baby mama and the last straw was accidently meeting his other girlfriend. His other girlfriend bought him the laptop and the car.
This guy will never get a job, because his job is being a
whore. One of my last conversations with him was him admitting that he had to fuck these poor women to get what he wanted. I also asked him how much he charged to give a man a blow job. Hey he's whore...Lord only knows what he is capable of. Lastly, this blog was started to educate other women about this man, before he takes them for what ever he can emotionally and financially.
